What Are the Best Tips for Rehoming an Adult Dog?
Published: 27 Feb 2025
Rehoming an adult dog can be a very tough decision. It’s not easy, and feeling sad, confused, or even guilty is normal. But if you’ve decided it’s best for your dog, there are ways to make the process easier for everyone involved. Whether your dog is facing health issues, behavior problems, or a change in your lifestyle, we’ll go through the best tips to help your dog find a new loving home.
Table of Contents
1. Thinking About Rehoming
Before you start rehoming your dog, it’s important to think carefully about why you’re doing it.
Why Might You Need to Rehome Your Dog?
There are many reasons why people need to rehome their dogs:
- Life Changes: You may be moving to a place that doesn’t allow pets. I had a friend who moved abroad for work and couldn’t take her dog with her. It was hard, but she knew it was the right choice for her dog.
- Health Issues: Sometimes, health problems—either yours or the dogs’—can make it hard to care for them. For example, some dogs may shake in their sleep due to anxiety or other health conditions. To understand why this might happen, check out our article on [Why Dogs Shake in Sleep]. I once had a dog with allergies that needed special care, and after trying my best, it became clear I couldn’t keep up with the treatment.
- Behavior Problems: Dogs can sometimes have behavioral problems like aggression or anxiety. If this happens, don’t give up right away—try training first. If it’s still not working, it may be time to consider rehoming.
Questions to Ask Yourself
Before making a decision, ask yourself these questions:
- Can the problem be fixed? Sometimes, training can help resolve behavioral issues like separation anxiety. Is it worth giving it another try before deciding to rehome your dog?
- What’s best for your dog? Would your dog be happier in a new home with more space, or can you adjust your life to keep them?
I almost rehomed a dog because of behavior problems, but after some training and patience, we worked through them. Take your time before making this big decision.
2. Preparing Your Dog for Rehoming
Once you’ve decided, it’s time to prepare your dog for its new home. The easier you make this transition, the better for your dog.
Get a Vet Check
Make sure your dog has a check-up with the vet. This will help the new owners understand any medical needs. Let the new owner know if your dog takes medicine or needs special care.
When I adopted a dog, the previous owner gave me a full medical history, making it much easier to care for him.
Write Down Their Routine and Personality
It’s important to let the new owner know all about your dog’s routine and habits:
- Daily schedule: It’s important to let the new owner know all about your dog’s routine and habits: When do they eat, sleep, and go for walks? If you want to dive deeper into understanding how to establish a healthy daily routine for your dog, check out our [detailed blog on dog daily routines].
- Personality traits: Are they playful, shy, or love cuddles? Do they have favorite toys or spots to sleep?
- Behavioral details: Are there any things the new family should know, like if your dog gets anxious around new people or needs special care?
Sharing this info helps the new owners transition their dogs smoothly into their new home.
Fix Behavioral Issues If Possible
If your dog has any behavior problems, try to work on them first. For example, if they bark a lot or struggle with being alone, try some basic dog training or get help from a professional.
I had a foster dog with separation anxiety. We worked with a trainer to help him feel better when left alone, and it made a huge difference when he was rehomed.
3. Finding the Right Home for Your Dog
The next step is to find the best home for your dog. You want to make sure it goes to a place where it will be happy and well taken care of.
Work with a Rescue Group or Shelter
Rescue groups and shelters are great at finding dogs the right home. They’ll ensure the new family is a good fit by asking the right questions and checking their living situation. Knowing someone else is looking out for your dog is comforting.
I’ve volunteered at a rescue group, where they carefully match dogs to families. This experience helped me trust that my foster dog would be in good hands.
Use Online Adoption Websites
You can also post your dog on adoption websites like Petfinder or Adopt-a-Pet. Be sure to write a clear description of your dog, its needs, and its personality.
- Include details: Is your dog great with kids, or do you prefer a quieter home? Are they active or more laid-back?
- Add pictures: A cute photo can help potential adopters feel more connected.
Being honest and clear will help you find the right home for your dog.
Ask Questions to Potential Adopters
It’s important to ask the right questions to ensure the new family will be a good fit. Here are a few questions to ask:
- How much time will they spend with your dog?
- Do they have other pets?
- Are they ready to take on the responsibility of a dog?
I once rehomed a dog to a family that seemed perfect. But after asking some questions, I found out they didn’t have enough time to meet the dog’s needs, so I looked for a better match. It’s OK to take your time!
4. Helping Your Dog Settle In
Once your dog moves to their new home, it’s important to help them adjust.
Introduce Your Dog Gradually
Let the new family meet your dog a few times before the official move. This will help your dog get to know them, which will make it feel more comfortable when they arrive.
Bring Comfort Items
Bring along your dog’s favorite toys, blanket, or bed. Familiar smells and objects can make a huge difference in helping your dog feel secure in a new place. I had a dog that carried his blanket everywhere—it was his comfort item, and it really helped him settle into a new home.
Keep the Routine the Same
Dogs love routine, so the new owners must stick to their dog’s regular schedule. Keeping feeding times and walks the same will help your dog feel more at ease.
5. Taking Care of Yourself
Rehoming a dog is hard, and it’s OK to feel sad. It’s normal to miss them, and it’s OK to grieve.
Feeling Guilt
You might feel guilty about rehoming your dog, but remember, you’re doing what’s best for them. It’s a selfless act that shows how much you care. I know from experience that it hurts, but in the end, you’re helping your dog find a better life.
Talk to Others
Talk to people who understand what you’re going through. It can help to talk about your feelings during this time. Connecting with others who have been through the same experience made all the difference. Many people in online groups or local communities are facing similar challenges and are ready to listen or share their advice.
Conclusion
Rehoming your dog is never easy, but it can be the right choice for your dog’s future. By preparing your dog, finding the right family, and offering support, you give them the best chance at a happy life. It may be hard to say goodbye, but knowing your dog is in a loving home will make the pain easier to bear.
If you’re considering adopting a dog after rehoming yours, it’s important to choose the right one for your family’s lifestyle. For helpful tips on how to select the best dog breed for your household, check out this guide from the American Kennel Club on choosing the right dog.
Frequently Asked Questions
How do I know if the new family fits my dog well?
Ask plenty of questions, and don’t hesitate to take your time. A home visit or trial period is also a good way to ensure it’s the right match.
Can I visit my dog after they’re rehomed?
Many adopters are open to updates and occasional visits, but respecting their space and boundaries is important.
Should I charge an adoption fee?
Charging a small fee ensures that the adopter is serious. It can also cover any medical costs or help with expenses related to rehoming.
Can I still stay in contact with my dog after rehoming?
It depends on the new owner, but some may allow occasional updates or visits. Make sure to discuss this with them beforehand to set expectations.
How do I handle the emotional guilt of rehoming my dog?
It’s normal to feel guilty, but remember you’re choosing what’s best for your dog. Seeking support from others who have gone through it can help you process the emotions.
Should I let my dog meet the new family before rehoming?
Yes, allowing your dog to meet the new family before the move is a great idea. It helps your dog feel more comfortable and establishes a bond.
How do I explain to my kids that we’re rehoming the dog?
Be honest but gentle with your children. Explain that the decision was made for the dog’s happiness. Reassure them that their pet will be going to a loving family.
What should I do if my dog has separation anxiety when being rehomed?
Consider providing the new owner with guidance on dealing with the anxiety. You can also suggest specific training methods or comfort items to help your dog adjust.
What if my dog has a history of medical issues and needs special care?
Be transparent about your dog’s health and provide a detailed medical history. This will ensure that the new family is prepared to offer the proper care your dog requires.
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- Avoid Spamming
- No Fake News
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- No Personal Attacks
